Avoidance to stop your own ppl-pleasing?

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2021.11.30 15:38 greeenwoood Avoidance to stop your own ppl-pleasing?

I'm very interested what role assertion, being able to say no, resisting subjugation, standing up for yourself, saying what you think etc. plays into avoidance.
I know that shame ultimatively led me to treat me as less important than others when I'm around other people. But the consecutive people-pleasing became a problem on its own.
I feel worthless but acting like I am, makes it even worse.
But when I'm alone for some time, I actually do have my own ideas of what I think is worthwhile to do, how to spend my time etc. Give me enough time, and reading through supportive things to help me through the shame, and I'll feel a tiny bit better.
The moment I go out where I'd have to defend my views, everything disappears. I'm at a point where I don't even know what I actually WAS thinking. I can't tell. I'm sitting alone, next day an appointment, and I forgot what I want or would have wanted if it was just me here in my head. I can only think: 'What is it that others want me to do?'
I want to be part of life, but this, too, amplifies my need to escape and avoid situations where people could 'entrap' me.
I just wonder whether there's others that feel something similar, or what you think about the topic of assertion with avpd?
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